How healthy is your sex-life after baby?
Here's the deal: sex is easy-peasy-lemon-squeezee to measure.
Like I can ask you, "Jane, how many times a month do you have sex?"
Because of how easy it is to track - we put a lot of merit on it measuring how healthy our relationship is.
While it is VERY true that the bedroom is a direct reflection of how other aspects of our relationship is going - the # of times per month doesn't tell us ALL THAT MUCH.
Here is what I really want to know:
Who is initiating?
Do you have an orgasm?
How do you feel in your body?
Are you talking openly about pleasure?
No seriously momma.... go grab your journal and reflect on these questions! Because this, at the core, the real answer to whether or not you have a healthy sex-life with hubs.
All of this is WAY more telling than the sheer amount you are having sex.
I have clients who are having a healthy amount of sex, but are only doing it because they feel like their husbands deserve it....
A lot of my clients feel uncomfortable in their skin, have a hard time orgasming, and honestly - don't really WANT to have sex...
Can you relate to them? Does sex sometimes feel like a chore?
No shame, no judgement!
Here's the thing: this is where you are but you don't have to stay here!
The reality is, is that your body was made to feel, crave, and desire PLEASURE! I assure you that your orgasm and sex-drive is within you, just dying to come up (lol does that even seem like a chore?)
Of course- I want you to do the work to increase your libido and orgasm for YOU, but for a lot of mommas, it is easier for them to justify because they feel like hubs deserves more sex... so if that is where you are - OKAY! Then do it for him, but I'll be rooting for you and your own big O!
Ready to reclaim the sexy in your sexy, healthy and vibrant marriage?
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